LGBTQ+ Therapy Throughout Pennsylvania & New Jersey
Tired of feeling like you have to explain yourself in therapy?
Life as an LGBTQ+ individual can be complicated. Whether you're navigating identity, relationships, or mental health struggles, you deserve a safe, affirming space to explore, heal, and thrive.
Affirming Therapy for LGBTQIA+ Individuals, & Couples

LGBTQ+ Therapy in Philadelphia & Bryn Mawr
You’ve been carrying the weight of masking, rejection, and societal pressures for too long. Maybe your relationships feel strained, your anxiety is overwhelming, or past experiences still haunt you. You want to feel safe in your identity, comfortable in your body, and free to express yourself without fear of judgment.
You don’t have to hide who you are to get the support you need.
Right now, you may feel stuck in old patterns, exhausted from hiding, or unsure how to move forward. The emotional toll of not being fully seen or understood can leave you feeling disconnected, anxious, or alone.
At Spilove Psychotherapy, we provide LGBTQ+ affirming therapy in Philadelphia, Bryn Mawr, and online throughout Pennsylvania & New Jersey. Whether you're seeking individual therapy, queer couples counseling, gender-affirming support, or family therapy, our LGBTQ+ and allied therapists offer a safe, validating, and inclusive space to help you heal, grow, and reclaim your confidence.
Our Approach to LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy
Healing isn’t just about coping—it’s about embracing your full, authentic self in a world that may not always make space for you. At Spilove Psychotherapy, we go beyond just providing therapy—we create a deeply affirming space where your identity, experiences, and emotions are fully seen, honored, and supported.
We recognize that LGBTQ+ individuals face unique challenges, from navigating identity and coming out to dealing with family acceptance, trauma, or relationship struggles. Our approach integrates both stabilization and deep healing, offering trauma-informed support and identity-affirming therapy that meets you where you are.
For those struggling with anxiety, depression, or past trauma, we provide therapies like EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), and somatic therapy to help you heal at the root. If you’re working through relationship dynamics, polyamory, or queer family concerns, our therapists are trained in attachment-based and couples therapy approaches to help you build trust, communication, and connection.
At Spilove Psychotherapy, we are a queer-owned and queer-run practice—some of our clinicians identify as LGBTQ+, and all are deeply affirming. You deserve therapy where you don’t have to explain your identity—where you are seen, respected, and celebrated.
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LGBTQ+ affirming therapy provides a safe, supportive space where your identity and experiences are fully recognized and respected. Whether you're struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship challenges, or identity exploration, our therapists offer support tailored to your unique needs. We use effective, depth-oriented approaches like EMDR, IFS, and somatic therapy to help you heal and thrive.
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No, you do not need to be “out” to seek therapy. Whether you're questioning, exploring, or fully embracing your identity, our therapists meet you where you are. Therapy is a place to process your feelings, navigate fears or challenges, and gain confidence in expressing your true self—on your terms.
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Yes! We provide queer couples therapy, polyamory and non-monogamy support, and LGBTQ+ family therapy. Whether you’re navigating relationship dynamics, communication struggles, or family acceptance, we offer a space for healing and deeper connection.
Discover Connection and Support in Our Queer Processing Group
It’s not just therapy—It’s a space where you can finally breathe
At Spilove Psychotherapy, we do more than provide a safe space—we help you break free from patterns of anxiety, shame, and past wounds. Our trauma-informed and affirming approach is tailored specifically for LGBTQ+ individuals, couples, and families, offering deep healing and lasting transformation.
Our therapists don’t just support your identity—they celebrate it. Whether you’re working through past pain, seeking self-acceptance, or strengthening relationships, we integrate EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic therapy, and attachment-based healing to help you process, integrate, and move forward.
We understand the unique challenges that come with navigating a world that isn’t always affirming. That’s why our therapy goes beyond coping—we help you reclaim your voice, embrace your truth, and build relationships that feel safe and fulfilling.
At Spilove Psychotherapy, we are a queer-owned and affirming practice, where every clinician is either LGBTQ+ or deeply trained in LGBTQ+ affirming care.
Here, you are seen, valued, and supported in building a life that reflects who you truly are.

What is LGBTQIA+ Affirming Therapy?
LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy is more than just a safe space—it’s a place where your identity, relationships, and lived experiences are truly seen, honored, and supported. At Spilove Psychotherapy, our affirming therapists understand the unique challenges that LGBTQIA+ individuals face, from navigating identity and self-acceptance to healing from discrimination, rejection, or past trauma.
Our approach integrates trauma-informed and trauma-resolution therapies, including EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), somatic therapy, and attachment-based healing, to help you process emotional wounds, build resilience, and step into your full, authentic self.
Whether you're struggling with mental health concerns, relationship challenges, or simply looking for a therapist who understands your experience, we’re here to support you—with compassion and without requiring you to educate us on who you are.
Who can benefit from LGBTQIA+ Therapy?
LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy is for individuals, couples, and families seeking a space where their identity is not just accepted, but deeply understood and affirmed. Our therapy can help if you’re navigating:
Gender identity exploration & transition support – Get affirming care as you navigate gender expression, medical or social transitions, and self-discovery.
Coming out & self-acceptance – Find support in embracing your identity, whether you’re coming out for the first time or later in life.
Healing from discrimination or rejection – Process experiences of family rejection, religious trauma, workplace bias, or societal oppression.
Queer relationships & polyamory – Strengthen trust, communication, and intimacy in monogamous, non-monogamous, or polyamorous relationships.
Mental health support – Work through anxiety, depression, PTSD, or complex trauma with therapists who understand how these intersect with your identity.
Family & parenting dynamics – Navigate relationships with partners, children, or parents, and build a supportive family structure.
No matter where you are on your journey, LGBTQIA+ therapy at Spilove Psychotherapy offers the support, healing, and validation you deserve.


Meet Our LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapists
At Spilove Psychotherapy, our LGBTQ+ therapists in Philadelphia, Bryn Mawr, and online provide therapy that is deeply affirming, trauma-informed, and tailored to your needs.
Find Community, Support, and Self-Acceptance in Our LGBTQ+ Teen Group
Being a teen in the LGBTQ+ community can be overwhelming—you want to feel understood, accepted, and safe in your identity, but finding that space isn’t always easy. Whether you're navigating self-discovery, struggling with anxiety or rejection, or just looking for connection, you don’t have to do it alone.
Our Queer Teen Processing Group is a 10-week support group designed to help LGBTQ+ teens (ages 15–20) explore their identities, process emotions, and connect with others who truly understand. Led by a queer-affirming therapist, this group offers a judgment-free environment where you can share, grow, and develop the tools to embrace who you are.
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Find community
Connect with LGBTQ+ peers who share similar experiences.
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Build resilience
Learn skills to manage stress, navigate challenges, and embrace self-acceptance.
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Feel affirmed
Be seen, heard, and supported in a space that honors your identity.

Being Queer isn’t the problem—but finding the right therapist can be
You deserve therapy that fully affirms and celebrates who you are. At Spilove Psychotherapy, we provide a safe, inclusive space where you can heal, grow, and explore your identity without fear of judgment. Whether you’re seeking support for mental health, relationships, or life transitions, our LGBTQ+ therapists are here to walk alongside you.