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Your journey to self-discovery, mental wellness, and emotional resilience starts here. Our blog is a space where our therapists share thoughts on trauma recovery, relationships, mindfulness, and holistic healing.

Whether you're looking for practical tools, personal reflections, or a deeper understanding of mental health, you'll find compassionate and thoughtful perspectives to support your path.

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Understanding Trauma—Its Impact and the Healing Power of Trauma Therapy

If you've always been curious about trauma and trauma therapy but want to delve deeper into understanding, click here to embark on a journey of discovery. Our blog explores the intricacies of what trauma actually is, ranging from its various forms to how it profoundly impacts us as human beings. We delve into the intricate ways trauma can shape our thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, shedding light on the complexities of its effects on our lives.

 

Moreover, we explore the transformative power of trauma therapy in our blog. From traditional approaches to innovative modalities, we uncover how trauma therapy can be a catalyst for healing and growth. Whether you're seeking insights into trauma's impact or considering trauma therapy for yourself or a loved one, our blog offers valuable perspectives and information to empower your journey towards healing and resilience.

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Healing Childhood Trauma: The Transformative Power of Inner Child Work

Childhood trauma often leaves a lasting ripple effect that can impact us well into adulthood. Healing from inner child wounds is a profound journey, yet one that can bring about transformative changes. In our latest blog, we delve into the power of embracing inner child work and how reconnecting with your inner child can lead to some of the most impactful healing experiences we may need. By exploring the depths of our past experiences and honoring the emotions and needs of our inner child, we open doors to healing that can profoundly shape our present and future. Click below to read more and embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and empowerment

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How to Prepare for Trauma Therapy Work in Philadelphia

In this blog, we delve into the essential steps for preparing for trauma therapy. Discover how you can proactively prepare yourself for the transformative journey ahead. From understanding what to expect during trauma therapy to exploring the profound ways it can support your healing process, our blog offers insights to empower you on your path to reclaiming your life. Ready to take the first step? Reach out to us today and begin your journey towards healing and resilience.

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Navigating the Abstinence Violation Effect in Eating Disorder Recovery

In our latest blog, we delve into a common yet often misunderstood phenomenon known as the abstinence violation effect (AVE) and its impact on individuals in eating disorder recovery. Explore how a perceived lapse or violation of self-imposed rules can trigger intense negative emotions and potentially derail progress. Discover strategies for recognizing and managing the AVE to promote resilience and sustainable recovery.

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Embracing Radical Acceptance: A Path to Inner Peace

In our latest blog, we dive deep into the transformative power of radical acceptance. Explore how this mindfulness-based practice, rooted in DBT principles, can help you break free from cycles of pain and suffering. Discover the art of embracing reality without judgment or resistance, paving the way for greater resilience and inner peace in your daily life!

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Discovering Hope and Healing: 8 Benefits of Joining a Infertility Support Group

Feeling isolated in your infertility journey? Many in Philadelphia share your struggle and understand your emotions deeply. In this blog, we'll delve into the powerful benefits of joining an infertility support group. Whether you're starting treatments or have been on this path for a while, embracing a supportive community can bring hope, healing, and understanding to your journey.

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Embracing Sweet Liberation: How Candy Salad is Breaking Boundaries with Food Rules

Discover how Candy Salad is breaking down societal expectations and beliefs about 'healthy' eating! Click here to learn more about how Candy Salad encourages us to tap into sweetness and indulge without feeling guilt.

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How to Stop Feeling Anxious For No Reason! Plus 11 Anxiety Tips You Can Use Right Now

Living in Philadelphia can be vibrant and exciting, but it can also come with its share of stressors that contribute to anxiety. From bustling city life to work pressures and personal challenges, it's essential to have effective coping strategies in place. In this blog post, we'll delve into practical tips and techniques specifically tailored to help individuals in Philadelphia manage their anxiety and improve their mental well-being.

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A Mental Health Guide for Couples Facing Fertility Challenges

Discover valuable insights and support for navigating infertility challenges with this blog post. As a mental health guide specializing in infertility, Karen offers compassionate guidance on acknowledging emotions, creating meaningful traditions, setting boundaries, and practicing self-compassion. Her blog is a resource for couples seeking resilience, hope, and connection on their journey to parenthood.

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Spirituality and Therapy

Explore the intersection of spirituality and therapy as we embark on a transformative journey towards holistic well-being. Dive deep into the realm of self-discovery, healing, and personal growth, blending the wisdom of spiritual practices with the insights of therapeutic modalities. Discover how integrating spirituality into therapy can nurture profound healing, cultivate resilience, and foster inner peace.

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PTSD and Trauma Therapy: Shadow Work in Philadelphia and Bryn Mawr Pennsylvania

"Discover ways to overcome PTSD and trauma symptoms caused by abuse, neglect, narcissistic abuse, grief, and loss. Explore your patterns to bring intention and affirmation into your life. Click our blog to learn more!

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Healing from Sacral Chakra Trauma: Nurturing Emotional Well-being

Healing sacral chakra trauma involves self-exploration, self-compassion, creative expression, and embracing sensuality for chakra realignment. Visit our blog for more insights.

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Is Online EMDR Possible and Effective?

You may have come across EMDR therapy and are possibly considering if it can be effectively conducted virtually, allowing you to participate from the convenience of your home. If you are seeking further information on this topic, you can explore our blog for additional insights and details!

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8 Types of Cognitive Distortions (Plus! Ways to Overcome Them)

If you find yourself struggling with cognitive distortions that are affecting your daily life and overall well-being, Spilove Psychotherapy is here for you. Whether you're based in Philadelphia, Bryn Mawr, or seeking the convenience of virtual counseling, our experienced team of therapists is available to help you recognize and challenge these distortions, ultimately leading you towards cultivating healthier thought patterns and achieving improved mental wellness.

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CBT in Philadelphia—What is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy & Is it Right For You?

If you are living in Philadelphia, Center City, or out on the Main Line and find yourself feeling trapped in a cycle of negative thoughts, you may want to learn more about how Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) could help. Click on this blog to gain a deeper understanding of the potential benefits of CBT and to explore how it can offer you the support you need. We're here to provide you with additional details and support as you consider this treatment option, empowering you to make informed decisions about your mental health journey.

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9 DBT Skills for Handling Holiday Stress

Managing emotions during the holidays can be tough. But you don't have to go through it alone. Consider trying DBT. DBT offers proven techniques to help you regulate your emotions and improve your wellbeing. To learn more about how DBT can help during the holidays, click here. Build your own DBT toolbox and gain valuable skills for a more balanced and connected holiday season.

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What is EMDR Therapy & Who Can Benefit from EMDR?

In this blog post, we will delve into the practice of EMDR therapy, shedding light on its purpose and exploring the wide range of individuals who can greatly benefit from this innovative approach. Whether you reside in the vibrant city of Philadelphia, the charming town of Bryn Mawr, or prefer the convenience of online sessions anywhere in Pennsylvania, we invite you to dive into the transformative world of EMDR and discover how it can bring healing and relief to your life.

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DBT Skills to Use Around the Thanksgiving Table

We can build up our Thanksgiving tool box by integrating the techniques of Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT). By harnessing the power of DBT, we can maximize our potential for creating harmonious and enriching connections, and truly embrace the spirit of Thanksgiving.

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Attachment Styles in Relationships (Plus 7 Ways to Manage Your Attachment Style!)

If you find yourself wondering what kind of attachment style your parents have *blessed* you with, if you're curious about what these attachment styles actually look like and how you can cope and support yourself, then worry not, because I am here to guide you through all of these important aspects.

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Trauma & Sleep—6 Sleep Tips

Many people who have been through trauma have trouble sleeping. Our bodies stay tense and alert, making it hard to relax and feel connected to ourselves. This constant state of "being on guard" continues to affect us even after the danger is gone. So, what can you do when you're scared to fall asleep? How can you start to improve your relationship with sleep and have peaceful nights? Well, it's not easy because trauma-related sleep problems can feel overwhelming. But there are effective strategies to address and improve your sleep quality.

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Fall & Body Image

Fall is a beautiful season full of vibrant colors and a sense of change in the air. However, many individuals find themselves facing a unique set of challenges when it comes to managing their fall and body image. The shift in weather, wardrobe transitions, and cultural emphasis on holiday festivities can all impact how we perceive ourselves and our bodies. However, It is important to remember that we have the power to navigate these challenges and foster a positive relationship with our bodies during this time.

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Back To School Anxiety? Tips For Parents To Support Your Children

As we approach the start of a new school year, it is not uncommon for children to experience a surge of anxiety. The transition from the relaxed days of summer to the structured routine of school can be overwhelming and stressful. As parents, it is crucial for us to provide the support and guidance our children need to navigate these emotions.

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8 Ways to Cope With Your Autumn Anxiety (And Why You Are Experiencing It!)

Autumn has arrived in Philadelphia, transforming the city into a colorful and cool landscape. Parks like Fairmount Park and Rittenhouse Square have become picturesque with their vibrant foliage. And people are enjoying leisurely strolls and picnics in Rittenhouse Square. The air is filled with the tempting aromas of fall treats like warm apple cider, pumpkin spice lattes, and freshly baked apple pies. However, despite the picturesque scenes and cool breezes, you find yourself feeling stressed, uneasy, and anxiety You aren’t sure why but every year around this time you’ve always felt the same. It’s led you to wonder why autumn makes you feel anxious.

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9 Tips for Avoiding Disordered Eating as a Freshman College Student

Starting college can be an exciting and challenging time for many students. Adjusting to a new environment, managing academic responsibilities, and building new relationships can all contribute to increased stress levels. Unfortunately, this transition can also trigger or exacerbate disordered eating behaviors. To support college freshmen in maintaining a healthy relationship with food and their bodies, here are some valuable tips to consider. Click here to learn more!

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9 Ways to Overcome Body Shame & Negative Body Image

We have been taught from a young age that thin equals better and healthier. This leads us to criticize, judge, and even hate our bodies if they don't fit the "ideal" mold. However, we have the power to break free from body shame and cultivate a compassionate relationship with our bodies.

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3 Things We Know About Nutrition, Depression & Anxiety

Depression and anxiety are widespread mental health conditions that affect millions of individuals daily, severely impacting their ability to lead fulfilling lives. While therapy and medication are commonly sought after for tackling these challenges, incorporating nutrition counseling into the treatment plan can significantly enhance overall well-being and aid in the recovery process.

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Healing From Intergenerational Trauma-6 Benefits of Trauma Therapy

While families have traditionally been seen as sources of support and nurturance, they can also pass down deep-rooted wounds from generation to generation. Known as intergenerational trauma, this phenomenon casts a long shadow over family dynamics and shapes how individuals perceive and engage with the world.

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Gay Men, I See You

In a world where the fight for equality continues, it is crucial that we extend our understanding and support to all individuals, regardless of their sexual orientation. So, to my gay brothers, this is for you—I see you.

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